Living Abroad, Independence & the Support We Build Along the Way
More and more people are choosing to live abroad — and to do it independently.
And something else gradually increases alongside that. The number of people navigating life without a built-in support system. What’s interesting is that this isn’t always a negative story.
Research has shown (including from AARP) that many “solo agers” are actually quite satisfied with their lives, and often report strong independence, meaningful routines, and a deep sense of personal agency.
But there’s another side to it that doesn’t get talked about as much.
Not in an overwhelming way, just in a practical one.
When you’re living abroad, support doesn’t always work the way it did back home.
It’s less system-based… and more relational.
Which means:
– it takes time to build,
– it’s not always visible
– and it doesn’t always show up the way you expect
I’ve been thinking about this more lately, especially through conversations with others living here.
There’s often a moment where people realize:
“I feel good in my life… but I’m not totally sure how supported I am if something changes.”
I’m curious if this resonates for anyone here.
And if it does, you’re not the only one. There are a few different conversations happening next week around solo living and support, all free to attend.
Feel free to message me if you’d like details.



















